There she is. She's got everyone’s attention.  Any man within 100 feet is looking at her!  She’s got them enthralled.  They're hanging on every word.  How does she do it?  Why are they so interested in what she has to say?  Why are they enthralled by her?

It is because she knows how to do it.  She knows how to flirt with class and confidence.

The reason people won’t flirt is they're scared of rejection.  Flirting, same as every other topic in dating, starts with confidence.  You must have the confidence and be brave.  

If you wear something a little sexy, it'll go a long way.

1.  If you see someone across the room that interests you, make eye contact.  Look at them and catch their eye.  Don't stare or they might think you're weird.  Catch their eye and look away.  It's ok for them to know you may be interested.  Let them wonder.  Smile with your eyes.
2. If he doesn’t come to you, approach him. Men are hunters and they need to hunt you but it's ok and hot for women to approach a man with a simple "hi".  You will know right away by his body language if he's interested. If he looks away and has a negative look on his face, move on, no biggie, say he looks like someone you know from college.  But if he's thrilled to have you there, proceed!
3. Be happy.  If you are happy, he's going to want to know why and share your joy.  During our speed dating events, the happiest women are the ones that get the most yeses. 
4.  Touch him.  Men love it when you slightly touch their arm, give them a little caress.  Be aware of the body language and signals you're giving off.  You're trying to tease him very subtly.  Cross your legs, arch your back, run your fingers through your hair.  Lean over and whisper something to him slowly.  It's ok to know what you're doing.  You'll drive him crazy with desire for you.
5. When it's time to go, let him ask for your number.  Tell him maybe you'll give it to him IF he can remember your name.  Let him work.  Play available but hard to get.  He'll eat it up!